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@Agatch I am so so sorry! Sending you big hugs!!

@Alexplpl good luck on your next cycle!

@scuba.chick such amazing news! Congratulations

I'm now officially back in the TWW! We will see, but the timing of O this month doesn't fill me with huge hope being smack bang in the middle of night shifts, but I'll remain optimistic until AF shows. If I don't get a BFP this cycle then I'm going to spend the next 4 months just focusing on being healthy whilst hubby is away, ready to start TTC again when he gets home

Omg I’m so overwhelmed with emotions!
Agatch I’m so extremely sad about you! I don’t even know how you must feel and I wish there was something to say that might make you feel a little better. There is not... if you want someone to talk just to take it out of your chest we’re always here for you babe! Take your time to heal and you got ppl here who are always willing to hear you.. I’m so sorry this happened to you again and I really wish doctors can give you some answers! Big hugs babe

Scuba You on the other hand... giiiiirlll! You made it!! I knew that the doctors telling you cannot do it was wrong! And on an unassisted cycle if I’m not mistaken! I’m so happy for you and I knew you will make it soon! I wish you happy and healthy 9 months and please don’t forget us! Come by and say hi and update us once in a while!!!!

Burkette Hopefully the TWW will pass quickly and you’ll be ending with a BFP! It will be such an amazing timing! Fingers crossed!

Girls... I really feel you all as my friends now after so long and I really feel your sadness and your joy! Whoever is reading this just know you got this. Even if you’re full of happiness or full of tears you got this.. this too will pass and you’ll be stronger after this! Good or bad everything comes on our way to give us more experience in this little time we spend calling it life! Try to make it worth and take it all in! Everything that happens is what we will remember 30-40 years as our life!!!
Hugs

Omg scuba yes girl, so over the moon for you super excited for you xx

I so agree with you Alex - talk about mixed emotions.

@agatch - I really feel for you hun, it breaks my heart to read it's another miscarriage..
@Scuba - Yay! Really happy for you!!

A weight got lifted from my shoulders recently. In may I applied for this semesters student loan and grants (don't know if that's the correct word). I got a message that they approved it since I have finished enough courses. So I don't have to worry about that now. As far as our NTNP goes, well I have no idea when I ovulated. My husbands schedule have been really crazy lately and we bded 5 days before I suspect I ovulated. Not feeling that strict about preventing since I found out the internship are from january to march and not at the end of the semester as I first thougt, Even though we are NTNP, I still can't help myself from testing from time to time. I tell myself it's because I want to use up those lousy ICs that just give me evaps.

@scuba yay! Looks like that cycle of waiting has paid off

Thanks everyone!
Scuba, so happy for you! That’s a great line for 10 dpo!

Hi all!
After many months reading and sharing emotions with you in the "shadow". I actively join this amazing group to say first of all thank you!! You cannot imagine how you help me without even knowing I was reading :)
Before I introduce myself I want to say congratulations @itsanna and today I woke up and read your amazing news @scuba! So happy for you!
@agatch I send you a big huge, I am really sorry :(
I am 38 and TTC for the first baby since July 2018, I got my BFP end of March (close to @itsanna), however I had a missed miscarriage in week 10 We were requested to wait 2 months and finally this cycle we are back! I'm currently 10 DPO and having several symptoms since last week. I am aware it can be due to stress at work (this week was crazy) or my own brain making me feel things! Actually the month I got my BFP I didn't have any symptoms and I was not tracking anything (I delegated my husband the responsibility of keeping me in the mood of BD every 2-3 days without taking any metrics )
Finally, sorry if my English is not perfect! I send all of you a huge hug from Spain

Hi Ladies, I'm still lurking around here occassionally to see how every one is going. Off to read the last few pages.

3rd cycle after our loss and got a positive opk today, BD yesterday and today. I'm trying not to obsess and take it as it comes. We will see I guess.

@agatch mercy!! You are so kind and nice! I send you big hug
@shayGosney thanks!! Good luck this cycle!
@Mistique good luck too! Not getting obsessed is so good and at the same time so difficult...
@Alexplpl thanks!! I am now and expert in TTC acronyms in English and no idea about how it is said in Spanish

I am out this cycle, some hours after my post I started spotting and looks like my AF is coming, I was keeping the hope it could be implantation as it was earlier than usual (CD 25) but the hopes are going away as I just got a BFN and it is increasing :(

@SCUBA congratulations! You very much deserved this! Wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy!
@AGATCH so sorry this happened to you! Sending my prayers your way!