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No Sperm......
My partner and I have been ttc for 16 months now. He went for a SA and within 2 days had a phone call from thr dr to say they found no sperm, not 1, in his semen. He has to go again in April to see if there is any change or if they made a mistake. Has anyone been through this or similar? Really need some help on this
Nats xxx
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Hey all just checking in, was gone away with DH for the weekend!! It was great.
Mel, crazy about adoption times, I can't believe that, it's not much different here though, I know someone who has been approved but has been waiting for almost a year after the whole process. I hope that it works out however you decide to do it and soon!!
Stillfun happy belated birthday, sounds like you had some fun, and then paid for it. That is what happens in our "old" age!
Hoping fingers crossed you caught it.
AFM: Day 18 I think, had a busy weekend! OPK's are not dark like the line, but so close, would you call that a positive?? BD'D on possible positive day and two days before that. I'm gonna try for before DH leaves this afternoon to go away for work for a few days. Was putting the pics on the computer from my phone from the races today and found a pregnancy pic from my last mc :( just about broke down. Still so hard.... Got my tattoo apt booked for August but I asked for it sooner just in case I get a BFP, not a good idea to get tattooed when pregnant. I decided on a peacock feather on my left ribcage wrapping under my breast, should be beautiful. Go google the meaning of peacock feathers and you all should get it! GL to everyone ttfn
11 years ago
Hey everybody! Is anyone pregnant yet???? Lol
Things have been absolutely nuts for me, which is why I haven't been around, and haven't been tracking anything with the exception of dates for AF and BD.
My fiance had another seizure, we've been having relationship problems, he came off of his anti-anxiety med, I turned 30, my very shy 5 year old has been trying to play t-ball (too shy to go out on the field, but we're working on it), work is crazy, blah blah blah. Oh, my fiance DID get a referral to a fertility specialist though, so when we have a chance (between all of the other doctor appointments) we will hopefully get that long awaited SA!
But seriously, any BFP's here??? I tried to skim the posts I missed, but didn't see anything other than a couple faint lines from Stillfun a week ago - any update?
to everyone!
11 years ago
Supersue!!! Great to see you back! Sorry to hear that things aren't going great with your fiance and that he's had another seizure. I'm sure the stress isn't helping things...hang in there.
Unfortunately no one got a BFP yet, though stillfun did get a new puppy!
Good luck with the fertility specialist. Be sure to come back on and tell us how it went. I've got an appt with a specialist in August and will likely be trying IUI.
11 years ago
Hey supersue! No BFP's yet..... lets do some more finger crossing but not legs
Sorry to hear about your lifes crazyness..... hope your fiance has no more issues with seizures that is a little scary it is totally understandable that you might have some issues relationship wise dealing with that and ttc. But good on you for getting him to go see someone too for fertility.
Northern can't wait to hear what the specialist says, hope you magically get in sooner!
Putting DD to bed, talk to you all later.
11 years ago
Hi Girls!!
Supersue- Sorry to hear about your DH but im glad things are moving forward for you :)
Im glad you have something to look forward to Northern!!
Mel - hows things? doing any more home insems?
AFM- Lost 3kg in the last week working so I am starting to feel good about myself again LOL I have been baby sitting my BFF little one who is 11 months so she is heaps of fun, I had a cry with her yesterday when I realised my due date was today and I should have been holding my own baby and not someones else's :( Puppy is great she plays with the baby so well and is super gentle so I happy with that! We think my BFF is preggo again but she wont take a test which is sssooooo frustrating LOL im like I have heaps at home and her AF is 3 days late so it should be accurate! I will talk her into it!
Im doing Baby asprin this cycle too!
11 years ago
Stillfun - that must be so hard to deal with your "would have been" due date and holding someone else's baby. Ugh. Crazy that she could be pregnant again! That happened to my nephew and his fiance - pregnant something like 6 mos after the last baby. At least you have your furbaby to keep you occupied and lots of work - and you lost a lot of weight!! I need to get off my butt and back in shape.
What cycle day are you? I'm CD 7 and was going to start on the aspirin again this cycle too. What day do you start taking the Robitussin on? If I'm going to do that I should probably get started, huh? So not feeling motivated this cycle though...
11 years ago
She is PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So happy for her :) I walked in with a Wondfo and said take it and im not leaving until you do and the line came up right away! So we found out that she is preg on my due date! Im not at all sad about it I just need to get preg again so we can be togther!
I started with my Robitussin in my fertile time twice a day. im CD 8
11 years ago
Anastasia: I hope you are feeling better. I love the idea of the peacock feather and I love the placement you are going for. Sounds painful but very beautiful!
Supersue: So happy to hear from you again! So sorry about your fianc�©. That is so scary. Sorry to hear you guys are also having problems. Infertility def. brings out the worst in relationships. Hopefully that means that things will start looking up soon! Keep us updated on the doctors appt.
Stillfuntrying: Not sure about my next cycle. Starting to think I'll never even hit day one again to try. That's great your losing weight (not that you need it based on your facebook pictures ;) Congrats to your friend! Some people have all the luck!
Afm: Still no AF and your all getting close to lapping me. Stupid soy!!! I hope I really didn't mess anything up too bad! Funny story one of the ladies I work for, her daughter, went in to labor today so me and the teacher were talking about baby stuff and she just starts telling me about all the problems her brother had TTC and that he had to use a donor. I couldn't believe it. I told her we have been too and she said her brother and sister in law used a donor and did it all at home the "turkey baster method" lol! and then she offered her husband for us to use if we wanted too. lol! Said he has "smart genes" lol! It was a nice offer but then she said her husband has always wanted more kids and shes done and would her only request would be being the god mother. lol! It was a nice gesture but not so sure about that one lol! Anyways it made me feel happy to hear how her brother did it all at home and it worked. I can't wait to tell my Dh the story lol!
11 years ago
Hi girls!
Have a few days off for our local Show/Rodeo so i have plenty of CTP time LOL, EWCM on CD9 WTF and OPK is nearly pos.... I wonder if the Soy from last cycle is making me O early, i hope CD10 wont be too early! i bd this AM anyway, i will wait to see what the OPK does and if pos tommorow i will BD again.
Mel- So sorry that your cycle hasnt returned properly! I wont be using it again, I have heard the saying especially with Soy "if it aint broke dont fix it" that it can really mess your cycles up! I wont use it again. I will keep using the EPO it is working wonders with my CM! i get 5 days of EWCM now!
11 years ago
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