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So my baby factory cousin, who is the exact same age as me, called me this evening to tell me she's pregnant. They are planning on telling everyone on Saturday but luckily we will be gone by then. I'm really relieved that we will not be there when they announce it because I don't want to cry or have any negative reaction in front of everyone. Don't get me wrong. I am thrilled for them, but I took it a little hard because when we told them a year ago that we were trying, they didn't even want a third child. They were completely done. And now, they're pregnant after one month of trying. That's how it has been for all their kids. Plus, on top of that, we just told our family that we've been trying for over a year.

I had a short moment. I went to my husband to tell him and my voice cracked as I said it. ( I'm getting emotional now lol). I cried for a minute while we talked but I had to pull it together for his sake. He immediately said that we would be starting ivf when we got back from Georgia, but I think we'll still wait till the summer is over at least.

I'm very happy that we're going to have another baby around! It was just a little hard to hear how easy it was. Ok my jealous rant is over. I feel better now and all I'm going to be is happy for them!