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I hear ya. I am the same way right now. #1, was conceived on birth control, #2 was planned and I got pregnant the 1st month trying. It's been 1 year since we began trying.

It bothers me because we tried randomly with our daughter, 1 cycle, and conceived. That was also 10 years ago...Here it is that we are actively trying, timing, focusing, etc..and so far haven't conceived yet. Why is it that when we were reckless 20 year olds with no stability we can have a baby but not when we are stable 31 year olds, we can't get it to catch on.. Grr

I feel your pain. My first was first time not even trying. This is 11 months actively trying for 2, I've had 1 chemical and what I think was another in that time. Sigh. But just to give you hope I was 32 when I had my first.

Thanks. I'm wondering if it's related to me having Hypothyroidism now.. Thyroid issues can cause miscarriages.